分享一段我非常喜歡的至理名言⋯⋯我常常說教養小孩好難,因為家長們永遠沒有一個準則該怎麼做是對或是錯的。

每當我在parenting挫敗的時候,我都會把這段話重複再重複的看,每一次我都能有新的領悟!

 

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you.
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls.
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
——On Children (Kahlil Gibran)